Mother's Day

I spent Mother's day taking care of this little chubster:

 We had a low key and relaxed day. Calds was still recovering from another bout of respiratory distress and emergency room visit so we just hung out at home.  Shane brought me coffee and a plant (sort of a tradition in this family.  We always give a plant).  Then later we went for a drive.   Next year I am sure Calder will be healthy and we will go wild and crazy!

Uncle Gary and Auntie Ludie are the coolest...

They have a boat.   A really cool boat.  And as soon as you step foot on their boat they poor you a drink.  Enough said.   They are also incredibly fun and thoughtful!  What you thought we just liked them for the boat and drinks?  They drove up for a visit and we had such a good time chatting with them.  Ludie and I are almost always on the exact same page.

Winter Music Concert

Tayler had her winter music concert awhile ago.   She said she was a little nervous but she did a great job!  The kids played Marimbas and it was very...loud!  T's class went last, of course. :)

It was really hard to get close enough to take a picture and the gym was dark but the kids were so proud of themselves.  T is there in the purple and pink.  This is Tayler's last year of music classes because she will be in middle school next year and not everyone takes music.  Next year will be an entire new set of parent night adventures.

Happy Easter

Easter was really low key.  My family lives too far away for a weekend holiday and Shane's parents were in Hawaii with his brother.  We hunted eggs got all dressed up for church and brunch and then promptly got back in our PJs where we stayed for the rest of the day.

Tayler's Easter basket was filled with seeds for the garden (she is going to have her own small garden this year), littlest pet shop eggs (she is getting too old for these but they have some sort of trading commodity at school) and, of course, lots and lots of candy.  Calder's basket was filled with some special jars of baby food and the eggs that were hidden for him were filled with socks (the kid needs socks).  T's eggs were suspiciously hidden all over outside and Calder's were just plopped down in his usual play areas (high chair, activity mat, play saucer thing).  Good times.  

Tayler prefers not to have her picture taken a thousand times (that makes me sad) so this is all I got.

I have to post this

When we were in the NICU our friends Cheryl and Brian came to visit one day.   Anyway, I have not posted this at all because I have not wanted anyone to give or get a hard time.   And I didn't want my Mother to panic and alert other Mothers.  Everyone was JUST FINE.  But, this is something I want to remember forever so I'm putting it in the record books.  This was the result of their visit.  Shane had to sneak into the ER to take a picture.  And now every time I see this I laugh manically because the whole situation was just so weird and absurd.  I realize I'm not giving a lot of details here.

P.S. Word on the street is Calder's future wife is feeling quite a bit better.  Thank God.

BFFs

Calder has an arranged marriage.  

What?  

You don't think that's a good idea? 

Well, at the very least they can be BFFs.  Meet Sienna.  Poor little Sienna (almost 3 months now) and her Mama are sick with a cold.  So, everyone send good thoughts and prayers their way.   3 months is too young for a cold!  We visit Sienna and Kara and Alan a lot but I cannot get my act together and take more pictures so these are from quite awhile ago.  Kara took these cute pictures.  Calder's hair is approximately 3 inches longer now (no joke!).  And Sienna is able to support her head like a big kid.  Also, her eyes are most amazing shade of brown!  Baby girls KILL me they are so sweet.  No offense, Calds...but you aren't sweet buddy...you are TOUGH.  One of these days I will bust out the camera on a visit (I take it along every time and every time I leave with, "It's a good thing I brought my camera").  

Lounging

I thought I would post every day over spring break. But...not so much.  It was sunny today and I'm hoping it is sunny tomorrow so I can do a mini photo shoot.  We are also heading to the Talent Show at T's school tomorrow night and then T's BFF, Lia, is coming home with us for an over-nighter complete with egg dyeing.  The fun never stops here people!

Home

5 days in the hospital.  That brings Calder's grand total up to 84 days in his 1st year.  It is definitely not a record, by any means.  Still a lot more than we were hoping for.  

Calder was discharged in the late afternoon on Sunday.  He has one more course of steroids to take on Monday morning.  His breathing is still labored but he does not have as deep of a trach pull or abdominal pull.  If he has Trachea pull or abdominal pull that means he is using muscles other than his diaphragm to try to pull air in or, more likely, push air out.   He still has a little dimple on his neck when he breaths but a couple of days ago it was like half his neck was caving in every time he breathed so, it's a big improvement. 

Just for fun, here is a picture from a few weeks ago of Calder "standing" next to Shane's birthday present from his parents.  We thought it was cute that it looked like Calder was having a little conversation with the bear.  And that they are both the same size. 

Even though we were in the hospital, two exciting things happened in the last few days.  First, Calder's first tooth broke through!  Maybe his first two bottom teeth but it is hard to tell with just feeling.  It's impossible to get a look with Calder squirming around and refusing to open his mouth but we can feel that tooth (teeth?).   Also, at the hospital, Calder leaned to give kisses.  If you are holding him and say, "Can I have a kiss, Calder"  he will open his slobbery mouth and lean into you until he hits some part of your face and then pull back with a big grin on his face!  It is funny, cute and I love it!   This morning he did it unsolicited...although, I'll be honest, I can't be sure he meant to. 

In other news...because people have been wondering how T is doing through the whole ordeal.  Lucky for her, she has been in Hawaii with her mom over spring break. So, she has missed the whole thing.  Which, is good.  Because, really, how many times can you be sympathetic towards your little brother who is killing your style with all his hospital needy-ness?   I'm glad she is having fun, although, I wish we were the ones taking her to Hawaii!